I’m 30 and looking for a wife, not just someone to date casually.
I’ve been seeing a woman for six dates. Conversation is effortless, she’s attractive, fit, owns a house, has a stable career, lots of friends, and checks almost every box I thought I wanted.
The problem is I don’t feel “the spark”. We haven’t kissed yet, and the relationship feels more comfortable than romantic.
After our last date I felt awful, like I’d blown my chance because things didn’t escalate physically or romantically. Everything just felt platonic.
So I’m stuck wondering:
Do I continue seeing this woman because we seem compatible, or do I move on because the relationship isn’t progressing and I haven’t developed a romantic attraction for her.
Has anyone experienced romantic chemistry grow after 6-7 dates?
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